What can I do if I am worried about my
drinking?
Seek help. Alcoholics Anonymous can help.
What is Alcoholics Anonymous?
We are a Fellowship of men and women who have lost the ability
to control our drinking and have found ourselves in various kinds of
trouble as a result of drinking. We attempt to create a satisfying way of life without alcohol. For
this we find we need the help and support of other alcoholics in A.A.
If I go to an A.A. meeting, does that
commit me to anything?
No. A.A. does not keep membership files, or attendance
records. You do not have to reveal anything about yourself. No one
will bother you if you don’t want to come back.
What happens if I meet people I know?
They will be there for the same reason you are there. They
will not disclose your identity to outsiders. At A.A. you retain as
much anonymity as you wish. That is one of the reasons we call
ourselves Alcoholics Anonymous.
What happens at an A.A. meeting?
An A.A. meeting may take one of several forms, but at any
meeting you will find alcoholics talking about what drinking did to
their lives and personalities, what actions they took to help
themselves, and how they are living their lives today.
How can this help me with my drinking
problem?
We in A.A. know what it is like to be addicted to alcohol, and to be
unable to keep promises made to others and ourselves that we will stop
drinking. We are not professional therapists. Our only qualification
for helping others to recover from alcoholism is that we have stopped
drinking ourselves, but problem drinkers coming to us know that
recovery is possible because they see people who have done it.
Why do A.A.s keep on going to meetings after they are cured?
We in A.A. believe there is no such thing as a cure for
alcoholism. We can never return to normal drinking, and our ability to
stay away from alcohol depends on maintaining our physical, mental,
and spiritual health. This we can achieve by going to meetings
regularly and putting into practice what we learn there. In addition,
we find it helps us to stay sober if we help other alcoholics.
How do I join A.A.?
You are an A.A. member if and when you say so. The only
requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop drinking, and many
of us were not very wholehearted about that when we first approached
A.A.
How much does A.A. membership cost?
There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership. An A.A. group
will usually have a collection during the meeting to cover expenses,
such as rent, coffee, etc., and to this all members are free to
contribute as much or as little as they wish.
Is A.A. a religious organization?
No. Nor is it allied with any religious organization.
There’s a lot of talk about God, though, isn’t there?
The majority of A.A. members believe that we have found the
solution to our drinking problem not through individual willpower, but
through a power greater than ourselves. However, everyone defines this
power as he or she wishes. Many people call it God, others think it is
the A.A. group, still others don’t believe in it at all. There is
room in A.A. for people of all shades of belief and nonbelief.
Can I bring my family to an A.A. meeting?
Family members or close friends are welcome at “Open” A.A.
meetings. Discuss this with your local contact.
What advice do you give new members?
In our experience, the people who recover in A.A. are those
who:
(a) stay away from the first drink;
(b) attend A.A. meetings regularly;
(c) seek out the people in A.A. who have successfully stayed sober for
some time;
(d) try to put into practice the A.A. program of recovery.
How can I contact A.A.?
Look for Alcoholics Anonymous in your local telephone
directory. These telephones are answered by A.A. volunteers who will
be happy to answer your questions, or put you in touch with those who
can. If there is no A.A. telephone service close to you, write or
phone the A.A. General Service Office.
Here is a list of A.A. pamphlets which may be particularly
helpful to you:
Is There an Alcoholic in Your Life?
A.A. — 44 Questions
Is A.A. for You?
Do You Think You’re Different?
A.A. for the Woman
Young People and A.A.
Too Young?
Remember that alcoholism is a progressive disease. Take it seriously,
even if you feel you are only in the early stages of the illness.
Alcoholism kills people. If you are an alcoholic, and if you continue
to drink, in time you will get worse.